How many times in our life.. we refrain ourselves from the eternal joy of life just because we feel that the people around us would not really understand or would like us to experience that..!!
How man times you wanted to do something that you had always wanted to do but you didn't coz you had to look after the needs of your family members
How many times you wanted to fall in love with this amazing guy but you couldn't let urslf loose control cos u know that your family wont accept your falling for a guy ..!!
How many times you wanted to fight against the wrong and you don't cos your fight for the right would effect your family ..
Many of us come across situations in our life where we want to satisfy our needs ... our Id comes into action an demands instant gratification but our superego.. every individuals moral police takes over and abstains the Id to satisfy himself..!!
But for what ..??? Why do we need to curb our desires or wants for others..when we know that satisfying our inner wants isn't harmful...it makes you a better person..It makes you happy,ecstatic and content.Then why do we first look at our society,our spouse,our parents,our children,grandchildren before we do anything which brings us pure joy..!!!
Why don't we give ourselves the right to enjoy and relish and pamper our own self with the attention,fun and luxuries we would want 2 indulge in.... Why a mother before going for a head massage from a masseur thinks twice about whether she should spend the money getting herself a massage or buy her son a harry potter DVD..!!! I get that we get happiness when our near ones are happy but what about our own happiness?? What about our own wishes?I dont ask you to get selfish self centered and egoist but is it right that you spend your whole life doing things for others,serving others,concerned about their welfare and when you need support no one looks back to you..no one comes forward to hold you when you are falling no one comes stand by your side and say don't worry i am here...!!!
Then is it right to keep neglecting ours elf n stick to "others before self" and at the end have nothing with you ..not even a person you could have been with who had loved you with all his heart just cos it would have been against your morality ,..but did the ultimate reciprocity morality take place in d first place....??
Love yourself before you love others.. treat yourself right before treat others right..do good to yourself before you go out to do good to others.. !!
