Honour Killings

As the honour killings on the rise .I had some views about it. Wanted to write about it but havent done that yet. But yeah I did comment somewhere else and the article got published at yahoo top 20 news on 24th of June.

Check the link out.

http://in.yfittopostblog.com/2010/06/24/the-right-of-honour-killing/


The post on the topic is due though. Will write one shortly

6th JULY 2010

It wasn't an extraordinary day but quite eventful.

Mom n I were not talking to each other since yesterday.That's because I was being rude to her from few days and she had asked me not to speak to her until I learn how to talk to parents :P

So the morning was usual and rather sad. I thought that even today ..i 'll kill time over face book and gtalk and would be upset cos mom will not be speaking to me again! But then I got the mail ( that i was waiting for since saturday)from my boss regarding the assessments I had to do. So I had something to work on now. Apart from that I had an interview at a BPO today for a soft skill trainer, which I wasn't very keen on going for.

Anyhow.. I was working on a proposal yesterday "The need of psychological intervention in Indian MNC's" so that Meghna Ma'am n I start working on her dream project. I went to meet her to discuss about it to school at around 12.30. Was glad she liked my work. We discussed various other aspects of the program we ll deliver in the MNC's . She also asked me to give that interview I was postponing from the past 2 weeks at the BPO. I came back home had lunch got ready and left for sector 63 where that BPO was. Had an interview there.The HR executive was sweet but the HR head was throwing shit loads of attitude and he was faking it big time ..it was so evident. He knew nothing about the profile he was interviewing me for and had this crappy attitude. As if I was begging him to give me that billion dollar job. The final round with the trainer head was pretty nice. The lady was a sweet person. Cleared me on a lot of things. But the kind of training I need to give there is something am not looking at. So I might not go there.

Also when I came back home, mom seemed happy and was now talking to me. So I thought I should make up to her and the only way I could think of doing it was by making a salad for her. She love salads. I made Russian Salad for her. Which she liked a lot. Meanwhile I also got a call from Amity to come for the final round of interview on thusday. Now this was a great news. I was kind of worried about the Amity thing. The interview happening on thursday works well with me. I just hope I get through it and things get finalised on thursday itself.

Later in the evening Happy came over to administer WAIS. The testing got over by 11. We then had dinner and he left fr his place at around 11.45pm. I took maggi for a walk and got back to doing what I love doing. Facebook,blogging and chatting. :P

I did quite a lot of things today. However took no action on creating an HILF or on my format :( which is not done and not happening. I hate this no action of mine in the programme.

Will do loads of things 2mrw. The first thing in the morning i'll do is create Structure for fulfilment for the day.

Time to sleep now.

Chao

Things that need to be done after 15th june

1. Complete my practical file and get it signed.

2. Finalise the Pearson training date.

3. Join Dance Classes.

4. Schedule all the assisting at Landmark Education.

5. Start working on ILP format and complete the criteria by 20th july.

6. Start creating the training modules

7.Talk to Meghna Ma'am about the same.

8.Conduct a workshop with ma'am in school on 2nd July

9.Fix the days to visit GVC Systems Pvt Ltd

10.Work on the training module for workshops at Btech college.

11.GAIN WEIGHT :)

Absurdity

When one day you sit down and wonder about the people you had in your life a few years back are no longer a part of your life ..you feel kinda lost about what went wrong ?? how come you are not in touch anymore??

Some of them you feel are on a different frequency ... You and they are now not meant to be in contact... cos of whatever differences you feel you have among each other. With some you realise you have had fights,which were horrendous at that moment ..nothing was more important for you than that issue over which you stopped talking with each other...n now after all these years the reason for the disagreement doesn't exist anymore but you have lost the friend who was one person you probably could not survive widout back then.

Learning Disability Workshop

A team of doctors ,psychologist and special educators at Apollo Noida had organised a workshop on learning disability. There were 3 speakers for the workshop each one working in the same field.

It was a good experience.. got to know how the government is dealing with these issues .It was shocking to know that there is no nationwide prevalence study for LD ,the lack of resources for helping LD students. There were a lot of issues that needs to be taken care of.. in terms of remedial teaching and training teachers, but I hear a lot of talks about the same and not much action.

Here I am standing at a place where most people are through with their student life and are at a position when they are ready to step into the world of work.. in next 2 months i'll be a post graduate. A psychologist for that matter.But still uncertain of the future. A shift from 'electronics' (thats the field of study I graduated in)to 'psychology'(Thats what am doing my masters in ) has been a challenge to start with,accomplishment when I cleared the entrances of various universities,fun n excitement when I started studying it,success and fulfilment when got my results,confusion and worry with respect to what kind of future will I have and how good will I be and the confusion still persists.There is a constant worry of doing the right thing after MA, I am not yet sure of whether I should study further,get into a hospital n intern, join a school as a counsellor or just join some company and do whatever the company wants me to do.

Luckily,to get some certainty, a lot of times I have had a strong feeling to do something for the kids of the nation, cos I very strongly believe and it is also the truth that a lot of maladjustments,psychological disturbances,failures,anti social personality,bad relationships are all the result of what kind of childhood one has had and how bringing up children with careful parenting, good educational,vocational and personal guidance at school can make the future citizens of our country take our nation from "developing" to a "developed" country.

So I am kinda aware of what I want to do with my life ..

empower and enable the kids,adolescents and the parents of our society in a healthy, intellectual way so that they live their lives powerfully and fully and in the process check for any wastage of any human resources,Make sure that each one gets educated not only for a mere degree but to make them competent enough to earn themselves a living,be a responsible citizen,take issues of social concern in their hands and deal with them as if they are their own and not of the people out there.

Sana: Shit babes... look at him .. He is soo hott...!!

Priya: Which one ..??? Red wala ya grey stripes?

Sana: Grey strips darling... aaaaaa... oh I soo want him Pri ..I want him right now...

Priya: Shut up bitch ... put your tongue inside.. act like a female weirdo..

Sana: Aaawwwww.... am i not acting like one.. m not gay.. he s hot and am a girl ... seriously Pri .. he's the last guy i would wanna be with.. he's the kinds i had always wanted.

Priya: Not again.. look at him... he walks so weirdly... as if he was an ape last year and has just evolved into a human being.. give ur self a break ..you nympho!

Sana: Huh! I hate you ..no no ... I love you.. will you be my BF Pri ?

Priya: Sana shut up and concentrate .. i don't wanna score 40 again in algebra.. my life depends on it.. help me get through this misery and pain.

Sana: What your life depends on it jerk... it 'll do no good to you... NSP will surely be good for you.

Priya: Impossible you are.. gimme my aankhen.. ( puts on her specs) ..Ohh Fish.. he is super hawwttt .. you don't want him babes.. he's mine.. see he's even looking at me...

Miss you sweetheart and our crow watching ..love you loads..

god bless you.. !!